We are heading off soon to visit my 91 year old Mom. Although I talk to her at least once a week, I only see her in person 2 or 3 times a year. My brother and sister-in-law live nearby and do the ongoing support and do it very well. I have been contemplating how I can help ease the load on their shoulders knowing that some of it is very real and needed and some may be self-imposed.
I'm sure there are others reading this who face the same dillema. Any suggestions?