I am always ready to say "yes" if someone else asks me to do something with them - eager even. I tend to not reach out as much as I could to initiate spending time with friends and possible friends. This topic came up in my recent discussion with the Med School student I am mentoring. I decided to be more proactive and as usually happens each call/ask was met with a "yes" from the other person.
As a result I had lovely visits with friends two days this week - one over coffee and one at a holiday lunch. I need to do a lot more of this!
Do you tend to be the one to reach out to spend time with friends or do you wait to be asked?